http://www.theefthealingcentre.com/wordpress/im-willing-to-treat-myself-with-a-little-more-kindness/ A blog on the benefits of EFT healing Wed, 18 Apr 2012 04:10:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 http://www.theefthealingcentre.com/wordpress/im-willing-to-treat-myself-with-a-little-more-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-19 admin Mon, 17 May 2010 03:46:29 +0000 http://www.theefthealingcentre.com/wordpress/?p=40#comment-19 Hi Linda, many thanks for your message. What you have written is something I hear a lot from client I work with. "We must work hard to 'deserve kindness'". You followed your passion, you were committed, and maybe, just maybe, it went against the understanding of those around you. It's not a matter of right or wrong. However difficult, treating ourselves with kindness, can ease the burden, and when we have a moment to reflect upon the the true meaning of this, can offer us real freedom. In any given moment, under the circumstances, we are doing our best. Hi Linda,
many thanks for your message. What you have written is something I hear a lot from client I work with. “We must work hard to ‘deserve kindness’”. You followed your passion, you were committed, and maybe, just maybe, it went against the understanding of those around you. It’s not a matter of right or wrong.
However difficult, treating ourselves with kindness, can ease the burden, and when we have a moment to reflect upon the the true meaning of this, can offer us real freedom.
In any given moment, under the circumstances, we are doing our best.

]]> http://www.theefthealingcentre.com/wordpress/im-willing-to-treat-myself-with-a-little-more-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Linda Howe Mon, 17 May 2010 03:20:08 +0000 http://www.theefthealingcentre.com/wordpress/?p=40#comment-18 Annabel, I found a juicy issue that is hard to clear for me so far, I amnot able to be kinder becasue i feel i don't desereve more kindnes. kindness was showed supposed ly to those who worked to deserve it, I was supposed to work more nad harder and make more money and I failed at that . I chose to be a artists and I am still not making enough sustyainable income and I free lance but still struggle with money and moneymanagement, i alos fel shame andit ids ahrtd to ie myself kindness when I feel shame. Tears come up quickly. I feel Like a poor orole model for my daughter and I feel m our son condemns me becaseu inam not a high weearner lik ehis dad( we divorced a year ago too(after 31 years).Stuck, busy ,but stuck,. Linda Howe Annabel, I found a juicy issue that is hard to clear for me so far, I amnot able to be kinder becasue i feel i don’t desereve more kindnes. kindness was showed supposed ly to those who worked to deserve it, I was supposed to work more nad harder and make more money and I failed at that . I chose to be a artists and I am still not making enough sustyainable income and I free lance but still struggle with money and moneymanagement, i alos fel shame andit ids ahrtd to ie myself kindness when I feel shame. Tears come up quickly. I feel Like a poor orole model for my daughter and I feel m our son condemns me becaseu inam not a high weearner lik ehis dad( we divorced a year ago too(after 31 years).Stuck, busy ,but stuck,.
Linda Howe

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